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  1. Anon1: Then the question is….is it really love or simply denial..a fear of hurting the other person and its repercussions that keeps them loyal? Of course some part of love includes taking the responsibility for not hurting the other person. This is a mixed-up thought, I admit.

    4WD: I hate being judgemental but you’re the kind of person I loathe. I’ve been with someone like you who took zero responsibility for his actions and cared only as far as he could get out of it easily. I think such people lack something essentially human…a conscience.

    Evenstar: I’ve been trying but I don’t seem to have enough on this to write about it. Its so complex, so individualistic…do you have any thoughts on it? I’d love to read them…please, please, please, PLEASE post!!!!!

    Asisin: I think the key word there is ‘rationalize’.

  2. I think it boils down to morality, and how easily one can rationalize it.

    You get away with it once and you’re bolder to try it again.

    You come close to getting caught, you start to reevaluate your morality.

    You get caught..heck, that wd just suck!

  3. Please talk about emotional cheating sometime later. I’d love to hear what you have to say about that.

    I sometimes wonder what is worse, cheating or not admitting to have cheated (which is cheating again).

    I hope none of us ever have to ever deal with a relationship in which we cheat or are cheated upon. There seems to be a lot of pain on both sides.

  4. Some people need to cheat, y’know. Like my best buddy, who really loves his gf, and wants to marry her, but he needs to cheat. I’ve cheated too. Its fun, but unless you’re a pro at it, you feel guilty for ever. Like everytime my then Gf said, “hey we need to talk,” i shat. But i hit it well, and when we broke up cos i caught her cheating, i didnt tell her about me… heh so i got to go responsibility free!

  5. “I wonder if most people stay loyal to their partners out of fear or out of values… ”

    I think its probably out of respect and concern for the one they love…


  6. It can also be categorized as ‘those who have cheated’ and ‘those who haven’t cheated as yet’.

    And I am not sure why would you want to be Peter Pan, rather than Mary Jane! Peter Pan is still looking around, but MJ got SpiderMan 😛