Unlikeable Women: It’s Okay To Dislike Her, But Respect Her
We don’t respect a woman we don’t like. What does it say about the gendering of respect? And why are unlikeable women unsettling?
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An Unraveling….and a Respooling
I have unraveled many times. It is a familiar experience. The difference this time was, I was able to track it. And with that, I could respool myself in.
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What ‘The Correspondent’ by Virginia Evans Returned To Me
The latest buzzy book is bringing me back to the gentleness of loving writing and connections. ‘The Correspondent’ is more than a collection of letters.
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Food Fiction: 12 Books That Fed My Soul
Food fiction examines political turmoil, gender violence, grief and adolescent anguish. These are my top 12 appetising reads.
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The Feels This Week: Appetite & Consumption
From the Ibis trilogy’s dense histories to Van Gogh’s famine scene and a tale of grief as meals, my recent inspirations circled hunger & loss.
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Books That Were A Challenge To Read: Endurance Training For My Mind
My years of consciously chosen books and curated book experiences have me reflecting on what they taught me & where they tested me.
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Female Friendship: The 40s Made Me Rethink Midlife & Misogyny
Female friendship is flattened by patriarchy’s demands. Post 40, I’m finding other women seeking mindful connection & the ability to moderate.
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A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal
Friendship with men felt like walking across broken glass hoping for true connection. Post 40, I look back with impatience & better boundaries.
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Boundaries & The Ticket Price Of Living Well
Drawing boundaries isn’t rule-setting. It’s tending to your life like a garden. The price of depth, curiosity, empathy may be being misunderstood.
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BOOK: Tsering Namgyal Khortsa’s Tibet & Amitav Ghosh’s Ibis
Reading a sprawling colonial saga (Sea of Poppies) and an intimate Tibetan memoir brings me specific lenses to see the world by. A book is my map.
