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  To Marry Or Not To Marry, That Is The Question
    Map Of Emotion | Politics & Feminism | Relationships | WorkSpace

    To Marry Or Not To Marry, That Is The Question

    February 10, 2011July 3, 2024
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    There’s a common notion that women are programmed to love the idea of marriage, thanks to the paraphernalia of weddings. But that isn’t why I don’t want to marry.

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  E Squared: Edgy, Entertaining & Epistolary!
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    E Squared: Edgy, Entertaining & Epistolary!

    February 8, 2011March 30, 2025
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    E Vestigio dropped in a fortnight ago to keep me company, to gup a bit and to cheer me up. She brought with her two books, my belated birthday gifts. Book recommendations from E are always interesting, given her diverse reading habits. Her gifts were ‘The Interpretation Of Murder‘ by…

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  Chutney Aloo Sabzi
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    Chutney Aloo Sabzi

    February 7, 2011March 21, 2023
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    Mum’s out of town again, which means that the kitchen is my free ground. I feel a little more confident this year than last year, since I’ve been experimenting with cooking. The kitchen doesn’t seem like scary, alien territory anymore. I’m actually cooking andaaze se instead of following the instructions…

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  You Can’t Hurry Love…Or A Man!
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    You Can’t Hurry Love…Or A Man!

    February 7, 2011March 30, 2025
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    Phil Collins tells me that, A friend’s mother imparts the following wisdom on men and marriage, “Don’t expect any kind of sense for about 3 years. After that they kind of settle down.” PATIENCE is a virtue, apparently a prized one for a woman. Me? I never met a man…

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    Tiny Tales: The Day You Should Have Stayed In Bed

    February 4, 2011October 4, 2023
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    The day stretches on like chewing gum that’s lost its flavour a long time ago. Yet, you won’t spit it out.

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  I Wear: Red And Gold
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    I Wear: Red And Gold

    February 3, 2011July 3, 2024
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    Dressing for the day often begins with one thing – an item of apparel, a colour, a fabric or even an accessory. The rest of the look is built around that point. The newest addition to my closet is a handbag, a gift from the boy’s mum. As he gave…

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    Mills To Malls: The Monuments Of Mumbai

    February 2, 2011March 22, 2023
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    The city of malls was once a city of mills. In my lifetime, I’ve seen the grey industrial belt metamorphose into the gaudiness of malls & pubs.

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  There’s A Woman Behind The Wheel!
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    There’s A Woman Behind The Wheel!

    February 2, 2011July 3, 2024
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    So gender jokes and misogynistic statements are now politically incorrect. But few people seem to have any qualms bitching about women drivers. These are usually accompanied by rolling of the eyes and a knowing nod (from the listener). I find it hard to believe that in this day and age…

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    Time Travel

    January 27, 2011July 15, 2025
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    Channel-surfing. Wait. Stop. Backtrack. The Time-Traveler’s Wife is on, just started on one of those channels that comes and goes. Just like the protagonist in the movie. Hmm. Odd flashes of nostalgia. The book was a birthday gift in 2007. Birthday gifts are special. Books are special. A good book…

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  The Past In 55 Words
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    The Past In 55 Words

    January 26, 2011July 3, 2024
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    55 words: The past is a tricky creature. It never quite stays in its place, does it? It defines the path we take. It makes us who we are.

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  • IdeaSmith on The Feels This Week: A Curated Life Is A Considered One: “@Harshaman: What a delightful set of throwbacks it was to receive this comment! First, to the days when one would…”
  • Harshaman on The Feels This Week: A Curated Life Is A Considered One: “Which for me means, looking back at the past with a discerning and curatorial eye I had been thinking about…”
  • Neha Kapoor on Unlikeable Women: It’s Okay To Dislike Her, But Respect Her: “You always have such good book recommendations!”
  • IdeaSmith on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “@Soumya: Thank you for reading and commenting. Yes, I’ve had a good male role model. Unfortunately for me, I’ve encountered…”
  • IdeaSmith on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “@krist0ph3r: ‘Judgement as mental shorthand’ is a great way to look at it. It’s narrow to think of judgementalism as…”
  • Soumya on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “Hi Ramya, Firstly, my congratulations on a well written post. It didn’t pull its punches. Secondly, it was lovely to…”
  • krist0ph3r on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “Wow, that was a lot to process and at some point it got too much for me to handle reading.…”
  • IdeaSmith on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “@Sid: Oh god, you’re right.”
  • Sid on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “I think the Poser Reader sentiment also comes from the branding reading as a hobby has had. Successful people say…”
  • Topher on Lit Crush: Gabrielle Zevin ‘s Tomorrow & Tomorrow & Tomorrow, The Storied Life of A.J.Fikry: “I too struggle greatly with problematic people who make great things. As a child Bill Cosby brought YEARS of joy…”

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