The Work First, Fun Later 30-Something Guys
I’ve noticed a new kind of man. He opens with transformation stories of how he was XYZ and uses that to excuse his lack of effort. I call BS on these guys.
Relationships
Navigating Family, Friendship, Marriage, Colleagues, Companions & other social connections
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Shell Shock
I met somebody recently. Someone who has known me for nearly a decade, only I can’t remember them at all. All the references check out, the dates line up, the stories match. And yet, there’s a gaping hole in my memory where this person should be. All I can find…
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Why People Cheat
The thrill of it. The validation. Why do people cheat?
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The Closure Experience
Getting older has me reevaluating what it means to care and thus, how closure looks It doesn’t have to be clean.
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A DIY Relationship
Friendship is a DIY kind of relationship that you can tailor to your needs, your personality and the other’s.
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Coming Out Of Battery Saver Mode
I’ve returned to thinking about men and romantic relationships after a nearly two year hiatus. There was just so much going on with other things, health, work and family that my inclinations had all but dried up. I had to shore up my emotional reserves and that meant going into battery saver mode. The easiest thing to stop, the first non essential thing was seeking men to date.
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Capacity For Joy
I crossed a birthday last month. Joy is getting harder and harder to know.
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Surviving the Seventeenth
Soon, it will be 9yrs since I made one of the few impulsive decisions of my life. It is a decision I’ve been punished for over & over.
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You Don’t Know Me
We’ve spoken. You’ve looked at me and I, at you. You probably thought of me later.
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The High Road
Walk the high road because that is the path that YOU deserve to walk on.
