My #MeToo Check
#MeToo has just broken out. I’m doing a check on all the ways this describes me. Yes, Me Too.
Relationships
Navigating Family, Friendship, Marriage, Colleagues, Companions & other social connections
Spring-Cleaning For The Soul
I’m surrounded by question marks, in the shape of expensive gifts from you. I’ve discarded the funny, the cheesy, the lighthearted lines like you’ve done our laughs. But what about the Parisian box of songs? La vie en rose may as well be a life of thorns. I don’t like…
The Nature Of The Current
The nicest thing to happen was that I felt like myself in my own skin. The nature of the current is home.
Okay 2017, I Concede. Let’s Wait It Out.
I want to write something simply because the topmost post on this blog for too long now, has been a painful memory that victimised me. I am not actually dwelling in the past. The present has had me too caught up to even think about the future, let alone the…
An Unequal Music
I read ‘When I Hit You’ by Meena Kandasamy and it brought me back to an episode in my relationship with music.
The April Of My (Re)Alignment
April has been a lonely month. Housekeeping always is.
No Games, Only Equals
It’s housekeeping time in the relationships corner of my life. That means letting go of people who don’t behave like my equals.
My Kind Of Life? Going Away And It’s Not Bad, Just Terrifying
New friends, new kinds of friendships, new definitions of support and ways to engage with others lead to a new me. New life?
Don’t Flinch: Love In A Clickbaitey World
Love. It got so much harder with age. The finding of it, the keeping of it. But mostly, being okay with it.
The Marriage Certificate LOC
Marriage becomes a political boundary between people, turning them from friends into people needing security checks & visas.