To The Guy Who Likes Long Drives
I wrote to all the guys who list ‘long drives’ as what they like on dating apps
Year: 2021
Mutual Misbehaviour
When I protest misbehaviour, I’m told “that’s how other people behave with me”. Does mutual misbehaviour negate the fact that this is in fact, misbehaviour?
Watercolours & Words
Healing is messy. So is art. So is living. With lots of love to @senseslenses and @shaunakde for helping make my life & healing, art. My journey in watercolours.
In The Court Of The Bombay Begums
Bombay Begums follows a formula of casting, tropes & production values. But it brings up some interesting questions.
A Big Ask
Do we invest any pride in the act of asking? Ask.
The Last-But-One Chance Saloon
Returning to a book I first read nearly a decade ago made me think about how many times I truly had that last chance.
The Two Readers
Of all the readers in the world with whom to bond over LOTR, I never expected one to be my teacher.
This Stops With Me
Hate, violence, abuse – these breed more of their own when left unchecked. I say this stops with me.
When You Move But Time Doesn’t
The pandemic confused our relationship with time. What does it mean to be mature? Do we fit into our generations?
Paper Shields
I’ve been examining the concept of labels this week – why we need them, why I resist them so much. No denying labels play an important role in the human experience. For a lot of people they are shields. A name is a label & it’s the first building block…