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  Red Lipstick Is My Superhero Cape
    Body & Sex | Home & Identity | Map Of Emotion | Politics & Feminism

    Red Lipstick Is My Superhero Cape

    October 18, 2014April 14, 2024
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    When I was small, lipstick was fascinating. It was a delicious tube that needed to be rotated and a magical colour would rise out of it. It would touch lips that made as if to bite it off (it looked so delicious!) but never did. And discreetly, its power unleashed,…

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  • Map Of Emotion | Politics & Feminism | Relationships

    Speaking Of Why I Don’t Marry

    October 14, 2014March 28, 2023
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    A beloved uncle shared this TOI Blog by Vinita Dawra Nangia with me. (‘Whom Should I Marry?’). This was my response: Dear uncle, I liked where the article seemed to be going (this is how the decision/marriage model has worked so far, here’s why those references are not valid anymore)…

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  • Map Of Emotion | Relationships

    What Friendship Needs (Not Preachy I Promise)

    October 13, 2014March 28, 2023
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    Friendship doesn’t need effort. It needs courage. The courage to reach out and say hello. The courage to not mind if they don’t say hello back. This is not the same as not caring. It’s caring, very much but not letting that stop you. It needs a little bit of…

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  Sunshine Moment
    Map Of Emotion | Pop Culture

    Sunshine Moment

    October 3, 2014July 15, 2025
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    ‘Little Miss Sunshine’ is about a dysfunctional American family. But I think it’s really about kicking ass. Let me tell you my own Little Miss Sunshine story.

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  The Good, The Bad and The Ugly of Connections
    Pop Culture | Relationships

    The Good, The Bad and The Ugly of Connections

    October 2, 2014September 20, 2023
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    Like every other aspect of Mumbai life, dating here is stressful. My result driven city has made a corporate exercise out of the experience of finding connections!

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  • A date is just a date
    Pop Culture | Relationships

    Because Dating Doesn’t Have To Be Drama & Disasters

    September 30, 2014February 25, 2025
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    The last time I spoke about dating, I was cribbing about Indian men, digital platforms and the world in general. But like the times I rarely speak about, I’m regaining my peace-equilibrium with the world I live in, that fails to please me, on occasion. And as with pizza, beer…

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  #AndheriGirl: Auditions
    Home & Identity | Pop Culture

    #AndheriGirl: Auditions

    September 25, 2014March 30, 2025
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    Good girls go to heaven.Andheri girls go to auditions. #AndheriGirl

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  • City | Poetry | Relationships

    The Phone Call

    September 22, 2014September 17, 2023
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    My truth comes calling, on an international phone callSounding exactly like every other person who thinksThey have something important to say to meExcept this one always doesFor sure, her words are truth, her truths truer. She thinks I need to be better, work harder, be smarter at my jobI know,…

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  • Politics & Feminism

    Feminine Mystique Is Masculine Bullshit

    September 15, 2014March 28, 2023
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    I find it strange when men say things like “Women are complicated. They are difficult to understand.” I am a woman, a rational one. And I know I am no more or less complex than an average human being. Some things about the way I live my life are different…

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  • City | Map Of Emotion | Politics & Feminism | Pop Culture

    Ladies Compartment

    September 9, 2014March 28, 2023
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    The Mumbai metro recently announced a separate coach for women only.

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  • IdeaSmith on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “@Soumya: Thank you for reading and commenting. Yes, I’ve had a good male role model. Unfortunately for me, I’ve encountered…”
  • IdeaSmith on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “@krist0ph3r: ‘Judgement as mental shorthand’ is a great way to look at it. It’s narrow to think of judgementalism as…”
  • Soumya on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “Hi Ramya, Firstly, my congratulations on a well written post. It didn’t pull its punches. Secondly, it was lovely to…”
  • krist0ph3r on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “Wow, that was a lot to process and at some point it got too much for me to handle reading.…”
  • IdeaSmith on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “@Sid: Oh god, you’re right.”
  • Sid on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “I think the Poser Reader sentiment also comes from the branding reading as a hobby has had. Successful people say…”
  • Topher on Lit Crush: Gabrielle Zevin ‘s Tomorrow & Tomorrow & Tomorrow, The Storied Life of A.J.Fikry: “I too struggle greatly with problematic people who make great things. As a child Bill Cosby brought YEARS of joy…”
  • IdeaSmith on A Non-Medical View Of The Uterus: Blood, Babies & Hysteria: “@XXfan: Yes, it appears to be a legal requirement for the hospital to show the removed parts to kin, probably…”
  • Xxfan on A Non-Medical View Of The Uterus: Blood, Babies & Hysteria: “I experience with hysterectomy made me more mature.my mom had to have a hysterectomy.this was my first experience handling everything…”
  • IdeaSmith on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “@Slogan Murugan: Indeed. Books were always fascinating but this year has been about the people and spaces around books as…”

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