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    Gaydar

    January 18, 2009March 23, 2026
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    I was at a seminar with a group of people recently when one of them declared that he was gay. In the lunch break, one of my friends slipped over to me and whispered, Of all the people, I never would have guessed that this guy was gay. I didn’t…

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    The Emotion Analyzer

    January 14, 2009October 22, 2023
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    Can I claim to have a Ph.D. in Emotion? Let me try and prove it. I present my case for ‘thinking too much’ when it comes to Relationships.

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    A Beacon Of Excellence

    January 14, 2009October 24, 2023
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    Last month, someone I worked with died. I was his boss. He was only 25. In memory of Sidhant Talpade, a good friend and the loss I did not expect.

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    Settle For To Settle Down

    January 8, 2009April 14, 2024
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    I’m reading a book called Rubbish Boyfriends. But hang on, that’s not all that’s responsible for this mood o’ mine. I’ve been talking (and talking and talking) to the following women: A has been steadily (as opposed to happily) married to a ‘Who says we get it right the first…

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    Colour

    January 2, 2009October 29, 2023
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    I spent a fortnight sailing the Greek islands. All my stories are about colour. It defines our world and where better to notice than when there’s a contrast?

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    Objects In The Rear-View Mirror May Be Closer Than They Appear

    December 31, 2008November 29, 2023
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    I wake up remembering that it is the last day of the year – and with rueful reluctance – a birthday. For a chilling moment, comes my horoscope for the day, Someone you used to have strong feelings for comes back into your life today, either in the real world…

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    ‘Tis The Season To Be Jolly

    December 24, 2008October 24, 2023
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    Celebrations are things you don’t exactly notice until you have to make a conscious effort to make them happen. Christmas season has been an integral part of my life for years and years now – one of the consequences of growing up in a Christian environment and having a devout…

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    Chick Lit

    December 19, 2008January 15, 2025
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    Chick Lit is the new Romance Novel. And it isn’t. It’s empowering in a very strange way.

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    Kinsella Fever – Don’t Go Beyond Shopaholic!

    December 18, 2008April 14, 2024
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    Can You Keep a Secret? by Sophie Kinsella My rating: 1 of 5 stars The premise of spilling your secrets to a total stranger and meeting them later is interesting. Unfortunately this book doesn’t exploit that idea to its full potential. Predictability may have been forgivable in this genre as…

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  Not One Of The Family
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    Not One Of The Family

    December 15, 2008April 14, 2024
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    If your family isn’t people who share a blood line, why is it people who share a sexual orientation?

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