A Connoisseur Of NOs
No. It’s the scariest word in language. It drives people into frenzy. It sits deep inside the heart, every No we’ve heard.
Evolution
Be Incomplete
Today I didn’t feel cool, collected or in control. Today I was incomplete.
What You Thought The Future Was Going To Be
The hardest thing to let go of, is what you thought the future was going to be.
10 Years Is A Long Time On A Ferris Wheel Called Life
I did the #10YearChallenge, placing a photo of me from 2009 side-by-side with one from me now. It brought up life lessons.
Alone Time Doesn’t Always Look Like This
Alone time doesn’t always look like this. More often than not, it’s faded, crumpled, tattered even. But it’s important.
I’m Always Coming of Age
I think I’ll be coming of age for the rest of my life. I immerse myself in people & experiences, that it is the death of the rest of me.
Polyamory: In The Name Of Love (For Many)
Millennial Free Love Or Old Cheating With A New Name? I’ve written about polyamory before. I’ve known polyamorous people. I’ve been out with some. I have felt a deep connection, even great affection for a polyamorous person. But I’ve also known a lot of men who use polyamory as license…
I Don’t Celebrate Halloween, Can I Leave?
“I don’t think he ever actually liked me,” I told a friend last week. Incredulous, he asked me, then why was he with you?
The Heads Or Tails Of Digital Dating
I switched dating apps. No, this time it wasn’t because awful people drove me away. It’s because Tinder kept demanding my phone number and wouldn’t let me login without it. I’ve never indulged corporations that think they can hold me to ransom, especially when I have a choice. So my…
August Is Good
Birthday month came and passed. The birthday was sweet. August is here and I am soon to be officially middle-aged.