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    Map Of Emotion | Relationships

    Death In A Paper World – A Cremation, A Trip, Lots of People

    November 29, 2018September 16, 2023
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    This month began with news of the death of one of my close relatives. A few minutes before midnight, he was found at his computer, hand still on the mouse, the light and life gone from his eyes.

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  • Ramya Goddess on Hotstar
    Body & Sex | Politics & Feminism | WorkSpace

    A Bleeding Goddess

    October 27, 2018October 10, 2024
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    Don’t objectify me. Don’t deify me. I am not a sex object. I am not a worship object. I am no goddess. I am a person. I am a voice.

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  • Flamingos
    City | Politics & Feminism | Pop Culture

    Flamingos Fly Through The Ruins

    October 21, 2018August 28, 2023
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    My years working in Chinchpokli were checkered with the ruins of the past as well as the promise of flamingos. It shaped me in so many ways.

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  • Digital World | Map Of Emotion | Politics & Feminism | Pop Culture

    What #TimesUp India Is Making Me Realise About Myself

    October 9, 2018August 25, 2023
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    India’s #TimesUp / #MeToo movement is up and kicking. It brought…Pain. Disbelief. Grief. Guilt. Rage. And also…Joy.

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    Map Of Emotion

    Seeing The Signs

    October 1, 2018August 28, 2023
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    In embracing the idea that every experience has lessons for me, I have to admit, they all come with prior signs as well.

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  Lessons On Boundaries: Walking Away
    Map Of Emotion | Pop Culture

    Lessons On Boundaries: Walking Away

    September 24, 2018July 16, 2023
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    Most of us are entrapped in boundaries set by other people that have become prisons. Boundaries are only good when you set them yourself.

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  • Ramya looking down into phone. She's wearing a grey hat and black teeshirt with moon on it. The background is grey tile.
    Home & Identity | Relationships

    I Don’t Celebrate Halloween, Can I Leave?

    September 13, 2018September 16, 2023
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    “I don’t think he ever actually liked me,” I told a friend last week. Incredulous, he asked me, then why was he with you?

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  • Ramya in lipstick art collage
    Body & Sex | Home & Identity | Politics & Feminism | Pop Culture | WorkSpace

    AgentsOfIshq: ‘You Should Wear Maroon For Your Skin’ And Other Advice I’ve Ignored As A Non-Fair Woman

    August 27, 2018April 10, 2023
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    AgentsOfIshq ran a story of mine on dark skin pride and my love of colour.

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  The Heads Or Tails Of Digital Dating
    Digital World | Home & Identity

    The Heads Or Tails Of Digital Dating

    August 22, 2018April 10, 2023
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    I switched dating apps. No, this time it wasn’t because awful people drove me away. It’s because Tinder kept demanding my phone number and wouldn’t let me login without it. I’ve never indulged corporations that think they can hold me to ransom, especially when I have a choice. So my…

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    Map Of Emotion

    August Is Good

    August 21, 2018August 28, 2023
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    Birthday month came and passed. The birthday was sweet. August is here and I am soon to be officially middle-aged.

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  • IdeaSmith on The Feels This Week: A Curated Life Is A Considered One: “@Harshaman: What a delightful set of throwbacks it was to receive this comment! First, to the days when one would…”
  • Harshaman on The Feels This Week: A Curated Life Is A Considered One: “Which for me means, looking back at the past with a discerning and curatorial eye I had been thinking about…”
  • Neha Kapoor on Unlikeable Women: It’s Okay To Dislike Her, But Respect Her: “You always have such good book recommendations!”
  • IdeaSmith on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “@Soumya: Thank you for reading and commenting. Yes, I’ve had a good male role model. Unfortunately for me, I’ve encountered…”
  • IdeaSmith on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “@krist0ph3r: ‘Judgement as mental shorthand’ is a great way to look at it. It’s narrow to think of judgementalism as…”
  • Soumya on A Post-40 Primer On Friendship With Men: Hope & Betrayal: “Hi Ramya, Firstly, my congratulations on a well written post. It didn’t pull its punches. Secondly, it was lovely to…”
  • krist0ph3r on Trusting My Judgement Again: Thanks Meena Kandasamy & The Rookie: “Wow, that was a lot to process and at some point it got too much for me to handle reading.…”
  • IdeaSmith on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “@Sid: Oh god, you’re right.”
  • Sid on When Did Reading Become Performance?: “I think the Poser Reader sentiment also comes from the branding reading as a hobby has had. Successful people say…”
  • Topher on Lit Crush: Gabrielle Zevin ‘s Tomorrow & Tomorrow & Tomorrow, The Storied Life of A.J.Fikry: “I too struggle greatly with problematic people who make great things. As a child Bill Cosby brought YEARS of joy…”

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