Is This Feminism? – Visibility & Erasure
When a group of people say Stop erasing us, they are saying that they exist, they are not abnormal, not deserving of less.
Body image, Beauty perceptions & standards, Sex, Sexuality, Reproductive health, Physical fitness
When a group of people say Stop erasing us, they are saying that they exist, they are not abnormal, not deserving of less.
There is a sense that the Saree Wearers’ Club is an exclusive one, limited to women who are married or of a certain age, have a certain body shape and even they wear it in certain ways & on occasions only.
What is it about our dressing that incites such violent responses in other people? Do we find it ourselves in response to other fashion rebellion?
In how many ways shall I experience grief? I watched THAPPAD and thought about all the people who have hit me. In plural
This is a recap of my menstrual cup journey. I have not one but two that suit me now.
Do you remember when beauty was joy? Shiny objects, pretty colours, soft textures, nice smells. Everything was beautiful. I remember being so thrilled at the very sight of a brand-new pack of sketch pens. The symmetry of each pen, identical but in different colours. The uniform ridges on the white…
I got a painfully bad haircut. What could I do? Would throwing a tantrum change it? Instead, I learnt.
I thought of myself as ‘one of the boys’ because I didn’t identify with how femininity was practised around me. I’ve come a long way. I may even be one of the girls.
I tried writing fiction again after a long time. What do you think?
I was trolled last week about my appearance. Other people’s reactions brought me insights about the role of shame in their lives and made me think about mine.