Lessons On Boundaries: Walking Away
Most of us are entrapped in boundaries set by other people that have become prisons. Boundaries are only good when you set them yourself.
Most of us are entrapped in boundaries set by other people that have become prisons. Boundaries are only good when you set them yourself.
“I don’t think he ever actually liked me,” I told a friend last week. Incredulous, he asked me, then why was he with you?
AgentsOfIshq ran a story of mine on dark skin pride and my love of colour.
I switched dating apps. No, this time it wasn’t because awful people drove me away. It’s because Tinder kept demanding my phone number and wouldn’t let me login without it. I’ve never indulged corporations that think they can hold me to ransom, especially when I have a choice. So my…
Birthday month came and passed. The birthday was sweet. August is here and I am soon to be officially middle-aged.
I’m on the last leg of ‘The Thirties Diaries’.
Arre ran one of my stories this week and I’m thrilled!
The Ocean franchise is what I like to think of as Smooth Masculine (but still very masculine) — a format popularized by the early James Bonds. They’re stylish and suave. They actually talk, even intimidate, with words rather than their fists. In itself, this digresses from the usual toxic masculine image of…
I called rainbowwashing in pride month. Alex Strangelove is narcissistic and an insulting representation of queer people.
Can on-screen feminism go beyond the samajh-sudharak, abla naari turned Kali maa & speech spouting devi? Let’s meet some of the subtler on-screen feminists.