A DIY Relationship
Friendship is a DIY kind of relationship that you can tailor to your needs, your personality and the other’s.
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Coming Out Of Battery Saver Mode
I’ve returned to thinking about men and romantic relationships after a nearly two year hiatus. There was just so much going on with other things, health, work and family that my inclinations had all but dried up. I had to shore up my emotional reserves and that meant going into battery saver mode. The easiest thing to stop, the first non essential thing was seeking men to date.
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Meeting My Feminism
I grew up feeling like my life would follow the same path as other people – work and you shall achieve, be and you shall receive. It baffled me when I was attacked or called entitled for this, when the boys I knew, weren’t. I wrote about this often. I…
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A Work Of Art
I’m forty this year. I asked myself if my life was a work of art?
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Paper Plane Pilot
Writing was my catharsis, till it became my crutch. A paper plane showed me the way out.
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Just Playing Games
Games are just stories we feel we can script. Simulations of a life we can win. Algorithms we run, hoping for a different outcome.
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A Tour Guide to You
Please don’t ask me to read you. I’ve spent far too long looking deep into other people.
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Capacity For Joy
I crossed a birthday last month. Joy is getting harder and harder to know.
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Looking For Light
Light. It’s an idea I’ve yet to wrap my head around, a word I’m still to learn to spell right, a reality that I still don’t entirely fathom.
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Regrets & Regards
Who has time to regret the past when a lesson can be gleaned for the future? FOMO life doesn’t allow for regrets.
