Music Lessons With Lolita
“Eena, I sang for an hour today”, says Lolita to her imaginary friend.
Month: May 2020
Saree-Wearers Club
There is a sense that the Saree Wearers’ Club is an exclusive one, limited to women who are married or of a certain age, have a certain body shape and even they wear it in certain ways & on occasions only.
Chasing Sunrises
I went looking for sunrises years ago. What I found instead was so much beauty and joy in the mayhem.
Feminine Strength In The Room
I read ‘Room’ and ‘See What You Made Me Do’ to understand why men hurt women. They were triggering but they helped me find strength.
Recuperate
RECUPERATE – For the ones dealing with long-buried memories and healing from old wounds
Hate Speech
Disappointment is such a hard teacher but its lessons are so deep. We just need to navigate away from the ease of hate.
Making Peace With Privilege
Privilege Guilt is the helplessness of having something one did not earn. But your self-flagellation doesn’t actually make heal a sick person.
Dressing As Protest & The Violence Of Fashion Judgement
What is it about our dressing that incites such violent responses in other people? Do we find it ourselves in response to other fashion rebellion?
TOXIC
The word ‘toxic’ has become a slur to use to attack, rather than a tool to reflect on what one needs.
Twenty-Twenty Vision
I wrote this post at the start of this year, having hit 40 and mistaking midlife crisis for twenty twenty vision. What a year 2020 turned out to be.