A boundary is a lesson in consent, which in turn is rooted in a sense of self. Who you are says what you allow. A boundary is not a weapon…

I met him at an event I was hosting. The growing crowds and reactions told me I was doing well. It was welcome respite from the morning’s fight, a common occurrence in…

There’s a set we’re walking on, Tripping wires, treading toes, But you treat it like a dress rehearsal While I call it, ‘Just one of my shows’ Life is theatre,…

I heard someone describe three other people’s interaction as ‘ritualised’. It made me think of the forced inanities that people thrust on each other, the scripts that we impose on…

The last time Adi was in town, I asked him, “So what do you want to do?” He sounded surprised, then he said, “Errr, meet?” “Yes, but what do you…

I have had a startling revelation that will revolutionize the way we look at relationships and well, men! Everyone knows Bad Boys are bad news. Meh, that’s last century’s news.…

Ever had this pop up on your screen? Stop. Scroll back to check. Look at how many people ‘liked’. Hover uncertainly over ‘View Comments’, then decide not to. Visit profile…

*Sigh* Ever have those days when you’re just hit by a gargantuan wave of emotion? Today, that emotion for me is missing people. I’m really missing a certain set of…

There’s a couple we have gotten close to. Yes, that’s a ‘we’ sentence because this is a ‘we’ friendship. Xion is an old colleague and friend. When he started a…