Maybe you just need to do some growing up
And maybe you just need to speed up that process.
With a friend, you can discuss art, architecture, books, the opposite sex and parenting. Then, just before saying bye, they’ll deliver the big truth of your life. And not sound like they’re talking down to you.
Whew pink season is over, what a relief! To paraphrase Mad Men, romance was invented by capitalists to sell more stuff. Valentine’s Day single-handedly created an economy of greeting cards, pink teddy bears & red hearts. Nothing wrong in these, of course. But let’s not pretend it’s something else. It…
When we kiss, do you close your eyes?Or are you looking over my shoulder to see if someone better comes along? I keep my eyes open,checking if you close your eyes! How come you don’t trust me? Because you don’t trust me. How do you figure that? Because you ask…
It seemed like the world was coming to an end and in a way, it was. Life as I knew it, was over, whether I liked it or not. I spent the next few days in utter despondency with a literal dark cloud over my head (monsoon had just begun)….
Are we too in love with the stories to appreciate the realities of life?
….the kind about a young man discovering himself, his faith, his relationship to his environment and where he fits in. The sort of story where his thinking is turned upside down when he meets a certain woman (usually older or bohemian or both). I feel like that woman. This woman…
I went to lunch with a beloved aunt, last week. She is one of my role models, having blazed the corporate path in the 70s and faced racial and gender prejudices. She has also had a ‘love marriage’ to a wonderful but non-Tamilian man. We spoke of work (hers and…
the real big truth is that people do not create all the problems in this world…it’s grown up people who do…
@ Infinity: Sometimes the ‘juveniles’ cause trouble too.
yeah, u r right….there is no one like a true frnd….
And maybe the truth will hurt. But it’ll still be okay. Beacuse its a friend.
But you know its upto YOU to take the words of advice or not!!!!
Truth is best served on the way out the door.
If that was actually said to you, it was probably a female. Wasn’t it? Males just don’t say that (for a good reason) normally.
On second thoughts, if & when, when males do make such statements they mean something c o m p l e t e l y different. 😛
Alright, as you might have guessed it by my Smart Alec comments- I skimmed through the title of the post! Damn. ‘Sensorcaine’ fell on my blindspot, is all what I can say in my defence. [:P]
My doppleganger is making such statements! I can’t believe it. *raised eyebrow* You must have asked for something incredulous like divlomh pm jrt yoy pt dp,ryjomh ;olr yjsy/ (yeah, it’s cryptic. see if you can figure it out)
@ Confusedsoul: Absolutely!
@ DC: Actually, it didn’t hurt at all. See the last line of my post.
@ Ratz: Ah, and we know just what I do with situations like that… 😀
@ Julie: LOL…I’ll keep that in mind…on second thoughts, I’m anyway shown the door when I tell the truth.
@ Brad: Comment 1 – Somebody is only PRETENDING to read my posts, these days….oh these men!!!!
Comment 2 – Like I didn’t know. But out of curiosity…what do YOU think they have in mind?
Comment 3 – “I told you so in Comment 1” :D. Will get on the case right away…don’t expect Holmes though.
@IdeaSmith^Brad#Comment2: You tell me what you understood; I’ll give you what I had in mind then. 😛