Maybe you just need to do some growing up
– Sensorcaine
And maybe you just need to speed up that process.
With a friend, you can discuss art, architecture, books, the opposite sex and parenting. Then, just before saying bye, they’ll deliver the big truth of your life. And not sound like they’re talking down to you.
The Non-relationship because… The Non-conversation because… The Non-boyfriend because… The Non-breakup because… When did we ever say anything about getting together? *Latin for “It does not follow”. Just like men and relationships. Hmph.
Finding myself at a lull between sumptuous stories, I wandered into a familiar storyline. And just like that, I found friends again.
Have you ever had an office spouse? I did back when Indians were shy about gender, relationship labels and women in the workplace.
You cannot ally with someone who does not believe in alliance.You cannot love people who don’t think they deserve love.You cannot live on somebody else’s island of grief. It certainly is a solitary place, the land of tears. And there’s no following a person who has made it their permanent…
While everyone in the accounts departments sits heavy on numbers and does a stock-taking quarter-by-quarter of the year that was, it occurs to me to do the same with my life. Except this is a three-quarterly review. Of my 29th year. I’ll be 30 this July and it’s an odd…
You may want to feel needed,But that’s no reason to make me feel needy. It doesn’t say much about your masculinity,if it feels threatened by my independence. I’d rather be alonethan with someone who needs to change meI’d rather be alonethan be someone other than myself.
@IdeaSmith^Brad#Comment2: You tell me what you understood; I’ll give you what I had in mind then. 😛
@ Confusedsoul: Absolutely!
@ DC: Actually, it didn’t hurt at all. See the last line of my post.
@ Ratz: Ah, and we know just what I do with situations like that… 😀
@ Julie: LOL…I’ll keep that in mind…on second thoughts, I’m anyway shown the door when I tell the truth.
@ Brad: Comment 1 – Somebody is only PRETENDING to read my posts, these days….oh these men!!!!
Comment 2 – Like I didn’t know. But out of curiosity…what do YOU think they have in mind?
Comment 3 – “I told you so in Comment 1” :D. Will get on the case right away…don’t expect Holmes though.
Alright, as you might have guessed it by my Smart Alec comments- I skimmed through the title of the post! Damn. ‘Sensorcaine’ fell on my blindspot, is all what I can say in my defence. [:P]
My doppleganger is making such statements! I can’t believe it. *raised eyebrow* You must have asked for something incredulous like divlomh pm jrt yoy pt dp,ryjomh ;olr yjsy/ (yeah, it’s cryptic. see if you can figure it out)
On second thoughts, if & when, when males do make such statements they mean something c o m p l e t e l y different. 😛
If that was actually said to you, it was probably a female. Wasn’t it? Males just don’t say that (for a good reason) normally.
Truth is best served on the way out the door.
But you know its upto YOU to take the words of advice or not!!!!
And maybe the truth will hurt. But it’ll still be okay. Beacuse its a friend.
yeah, u r right….there is no one like a true frnd….
@ Infinity: Sometimes the ‘juveniles’ cause trouble too.
the real big truth is that people do not create all the problems in this world…it’s grown up people who do…