Can you fall in love over and over again?
Or it is just waking up to the same love every morning, albeit with a different face and name?
Who are we really having an affair with? Other people? Or with that one frame that we hold up to the world and give it the name of whoever we catch sight of, through it?
Frames need to be polished every now and then, taken down. But we can’t see too clearly without them. Umm…but do we see clearly with them, anyway?
I haven’t been a big fan of Fastrack ever since the ‘cheating is cool’ subtext in their ad campaign. But this duffel bag from their collection caught my eye, especially for its label. It reminded me of the Tantra tee-shirts form of humour. So, after a long hiatus, an I…
My 2021 Christmas post talks to ghosts of my Christmases past and right into a silent future under a star.
There comes a point when you have to act like the person who left you will never come back. It’s essential to accept it in order to seek healing. But at some point, you must also ask yourself that if they do return, whether you’ll take them back. That’ll tell…
Why is forgiveness so hard? Because it involves going back to face deeply unpleasant feelings. Does saying sorry guarantee forgiveness?
I learnt something about closure
People tell you who they are, in their reaction to your most honest self.
Do you like to compromise? I don’t.
@ ABC: Do we have the patience to find someone like that or wait to get used to the other person’s foibles? Not much these days I think.
Isn’t love just a of finding someone who satisfies most of your sub-conscious logical needs which you have grown fond of as you you grown, seen in your close people, your idols, and through other means?
Its just that you find very few (usually one) who just satisfies all those needs. The funny part is, your needs change with time.
It is the frame – and the frame changes.