I wrote to all the guys who list 'long drives' as what they like on dating apps

I haven’t been writing about men or dating much, have I? The last year has forced me to sit with myself, without everything that I thought was my life but…

I think I can only experience romance when I feel happy. I can only play the games of flirting when playfulness is possible. I can only smile at the mirth…

Let’s do the dating thing. I say Coffee? You say YUP. I spend the next hour wondering what Yup meansbefore deciding it’s a version of Yes. On time, wondering if…

I was 19 when I met him. He was too, just a day older, a fact that would serve as a bridge for us, looking for a way to say…

I went on just one date in February. It felt familiar but not identical. I had had a date a lot like this one, over 12 years ago. It was…

I’ve noticed a pattern in the last few men I’ve dated, echoed also in some of my male friends of similar age. They open with WORK FIRST. They’re managers, they’re…

I’ve returned to thinking about men and romantic relationships after a nearly two year hiatus. There was just so much going on with other things, health, work and family that…

  If you follow me on Twitter, you probably know that I’ve been swimming pretty regularly of late. I love swimming. It’s my favorite physical activity of them all. Yes,…