Can Masculinity Be Safe?
A lot of straight women feel safer around gay men. It has felt, I’ve thought, like having a girl best…
An Evolving Friendzone
Should gender matter in friendship? That’s a question I’ve been asking myself my whole life. After all, gender is a…
Battle of the sexes
Confessional
I'm An Indian Woman
Laws of Attraction
Relationships
Times, they are a-changing
Men Who Feed Me
I had a bad relationship with food & men. Being female meant being food provider. Social rules turned to acid…
A Thousand Apologies
After I asked women to share instances when men apologized to them, I realised something stood in the way of…
Sorry Seems To Be The Hardest Word
I asked women to tell me about a time a man apologised to them. Genuinely, taking responsibility for his actions/words,…
Bon Feminist!
Are sealions good to eat? How about sadboi trolls? Incel brodudes? Interrupting shitposters?I thought about my claim that my feminism…
One Of The Girls
I used to think of myself as ‘one of the boys‘, because I didn’t identify with how femininity was practised…
Different Languages, Same Alphabet
Play a game with me. Ready? Pick any one answer: QUESTION: What do you call a guy who makes a…
Living With The Struggle
The struggle is real. This is the struggle to see men as worthy of empathy. No, they do not make…